The wedding is tomorrow. Manicures/Pedicures/Bridal Shower/Bachelorette Party: done. Now we just have to get thru the final preps today and tomorrow will be here. Time is flying by and Lenae will be a married woman.
There were little cards handed out at the Bridal Shower last night that asked everyone to write down their advice for her. It took me a bit of reflection to find the right thing to say that would encapsulate what Joey and I have found. Is there a magic formula? What have I learned?
I think the best advice I could offer anyone that is seeking a healthy, happy relationship (marriage or otherwise) is to treasure each moment you have with each other, and be grateful. Life doesn't come with guarantees , and you don't want any regrets. Life is too short for pettiness or bickering. Choose your dragons. Share everything. Remember who your best friend is. Other people, places and things may come and go, but your life partner is with you for the long haul. Appreciate that fact, and don't forget to say thank you. I can't say it's always going to be easy, but I will say it will always be worth it. Strive to make a lifetime of happy memories together.
One thing that really amazes me: Texas has been experiencing a serious drought for the last few years. Ranchers are going bankrupt, crops dry up and wither while begging for water, fires ravage the land, and yet my daughter plans an outdoor wedding for February (which in South Texas is totally doable) and it rains, and rains, and rains. Foggy, cold, wet, nasty weather...Huh? Oh well, just makes it feel more like home in the Northwest, and there IS an indoor alternative so it's all good.
Quote for the Day:
"Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you." Lao Tzu
Your post reminds me of when James came in from Crete last summer. It has not rained in forever and he was excited about sunshine and warm days spent fishing. No such luck. It started raining the day after he arrived and felt like it rained for 30 days straight.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the rain (hopefully not on)but around her wedding day is a sign of renewal and growth. Just as the rain soaks into the parched ground and renews the earth's living things, her marriage will be a time of renewal and growth for her and her fiancee. A time to share burdens and grow in their love for one another. That or seeing your guests flog through the mud and puddles would make for many memorable pictures. :)
Great ending quote too. Hope the wedding was fun. Post some pics soon.
Luv ya